What you do and say to get your child ready for surgery can affect how he handles surgery. If you would like to schedule a surgery preparation session, please complete the Surgery Preparation Session Schedule Form. Please find below a list of tips that can be used to help prepare your child for surgery.  

Babies

• Bring familiar things from home (like blankets, toys, stuffed animals, pacifiers, sippy cups, etc.). We have some toys but having familiar things can make a big difference.
• Be patient and calm. Your baby can sense if you are anxious. It may upset him.

Toddlers

• Talk to your child 1 – 2 days before surgery.
• Use simple words.
• Bring familiar things from home.
• Tell your toddler that going to the hospital is not punishment.
• Use a medical play kit to show him things he may see. Ask a Child Life Specialist about the kits.

Preschoolers

• Talk to your preschooler 3 – 5 days before the surgery.
• Use simple words.
• Ask your child about her thoughts and feelings about surgery.
• Bring familiar things from home.
• Use a medical play kit to show her things she may see. Ask a Child Life Specialist about the kits.

School Age

• Talk to your child 1 – 2 weeks before surgery.
• Be honest and realistic.
• Ask your child about his fears and concerns.
• Encourage your child to talk about how he feels.

Teens

• Use correct words. Give honest information about the surgery.
• Encourage your teen to ask questions.
• Include your teen in plans and decisions.